Well, hun, if this i slike really going on in your life, it depends oin how good of friends you are......and it depends, if he is really worth it, to loose a good frined, or to gainm a lover?..........

Hey, well i know what you are going through because honestly i am going through the exact same thing right now. I think that you should just go with what your heart says. If you know deep in your heart that i would ruin everything, then keep him as a friend, who knows maybe someday he will look at you the way you look at him. hope it all works out for you! :) Best wishes