Why do you have sex with a guy when he doesn't truly love you and isn't open to the possibility of new life? You shouldn't have sex unless you are open to that possibility, and that why I believe safe sex is after marrige, where the guy isn't just having sex for fun, but as a bond. That's why God created that, so you could become one and show your love, not just using your body but your soul> How can you give your virginity away to a guy that doesn't actually love you who is just doing it for fun, USING YOU??? If you were married and he fully loved you and you were ready for it, you must be open to new life. You don't just use your body but your soul, you unite your love for each other.... |