Love can be many things. It can be a sport. Such as basketball. You start off taking shots next to the hoop. After awhile you take baby steps back to shoot farther. Finally your at the position you want. It makes it easier for you to be this way and no Matter what happens whether you fall and break a leg you heal up and practice with going back next to the hoop starting all over again, but you know what position you want this time to shoot at.
