Falling in love may be the amazing feeling you have ever felt, but having your heart torn apart might sure destroy you emotional. Love to some people maybe just a feeling that they feel deeply for the other spouse, to me love is a deep and tender affection with passionate expressions. You have argument s that are filled with love, you say something you may not mean, you do stuff you didn't think twice before doing. There be times, you may be forgiven times that you may not but it don't mean you have to give up on love.
Heart being shattered of course many times. Giving her heart out to a guy who doesn't even care. Two years and few months into a relationship, seeing how happy she was but deep inside I knew she was hurting. Knowing that she felt it deep inside that something is wrong. She stood up tall, took a risk and found out that it was all a lie. The guy was a fake from day one. Tears rolling down her eyes, hearing her say "what have I done to deserve this, I done everything I possibly could to make him happy". Throwing away that key of her heart, making sure it would be no where to find. So he didn't treat her the way she was suppose to be treated. Then why the next guy will treat her best? But guys say, to us girls "you will never find no guy like me, I'll treat you like a queen", but honestly once you more into the relationships things start to occur to change. More arguments, you say things like you don't mean, you walk out the door without saying anything while your spouse is telling you to stop. You spend less time with the partner; you'll only see him twice a week. You guys will hardly talk on the phone because you may not have anything to talk about. Mainly arguments are sometimes good for relationships because it brings the drama and excitement, but at times they aren't because you might get carried away and start arguing daily over little things that might turn into a breakup.
Many people let's just say they argue more than they speak on the phone. Sometimes when you argue, it is best for you to talk to your partner about it and make up. But there might be times when you or your partner doesn't want to talk to you for few minutes, hours, or days. Depending on the argument, because some arguments lead to breakup, such as assuming the future, bringing back the past and reminding your partner about their ex. But communication in a relationship is the most important key, because without it you got nothing going. I know how it is, I seen how she was scared talking to her ex-boyfriend about what was bothering her deep inside. Once she opens up, it would lead to an argument. Most men don't appreciated there women, but until they lose them, they realize what they lost and try to gain it back.
Every day, somebody breaks up, or gets a divorce which turns there life around. Many people are scared to love again because they do not want to go through the pain they went through from their past. But I say, you shouldn't let the past from loving again. Mistakes do happen in life, if they do than it isn't meant to be, some of the mistakes can take time to fix. A broken heart, takes months or years to heal. Some people may not love the next partner the way they loved their ex partner. A breakup destroys everybody that it would scare them for life. Some people still may think of their ex partner while being with there new loved one. But everybody should know, that's its bad for your health to stress yourself about the past.
That's what she done; she didn't let the past hold her back from moving on and finding happiness. Finding somebody that actually appreciates her and being by her side day and night. That love they have for one another proves that they happy. Heart maybe fragile but deep down she is strong and wouldn't allow no guy walk over her like her ex partner had done. She has her head up high, and not allowing the past get to her. She knows it she found happiness in her life. She thought she wouldn't find anybody who would care for her, but she did. She found that deep and tender affection, and a strong passionate affection. Worried that the key of her heart that she threw out was so impossible to find. In total shock, he sticks out his hand, and there it was in his palm of his hand, there was the key to her heart. Love that was meant to be, since a tiny key was so easy to find.
Love is a strong affection, and people in life sure go through a lot in their past. What some don't get, why people who been lonely for so long and complain how they miss being around by someone who cares for them. Nobody should not give up on love. We all get hurt, but we get more stronger and everybody should give love a second chance. Never let the past hold you back from your present and future.
