Life gives you so many options. Many of us ask ourselves over and over "Did I make the right decision?" Perhaps that is why many of us tend to backtrack. Always wanting to redo something always asking for a second chance. That being said let's stop and think for a moment. Look at it this way if you were able to be able to redo lets say 3 things that happen in your life, What if the one thing you change is worse than the orginal problem you thought you had? Most of you are saying well i still have two more redos i can just go back and make the other choice as I did before. Yeah you could, that leaves you with one more redo let's say you use it...To get another chance with the one you think you love. What if...That person didn't feel the same? let's say even if you could fix the mistake you made to lose this person their feelings in the end were unchanged and you still lost this person. Yeah not to bad you can always move on right? What if by making the decision to take a second chance with the girl you thought you loved makes it unable for you to be with the person you truly care for? I guess in all this what I'm trying to say is the old saying "have no regrets" Isn't wrong after all. If we regret the things we do in life we only stall ourselves from being able to move to the next step. A good friend of mine always tells me "Follow your heart" advise that I now suggest to everyone that ever has regret or question of did I do the right thing?...if you followed your heart there is no wrong no matter what anyone else thinks. There is only one you...live your life how you see fit don't follow a path that is made for you by friends family ect. Stray off this path and follow your heart towards whatever it may be and I believe as she does happiness will soon follow. Thank you Mary without your strong words..I may of looked right over "her". I wrote this as a wake up call to those of you that are lost and as a thank you to someone who may of very well saved my life. -MJW
