I am looking for a special type of woman - might you be her?
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I desire a woman with whom [over time] I can fall in deeply love with; and, one who has the capacity to also fall just as deeply in love with me.
[Now, do not get me wrong. This is NOT a proposal of marriage or anything else even remotely suggesting that. But rather, it does speak of real, true, and genuine intimacy; and, identify some of what I believe intimacy to be.]
To that end, I am not one to use and abuse - nor - one to be disingenuous. In other words, I do not pretend to be one way; while secretly, I am really maneuvering for something else quite different.
Obviously then, your physical beauty has created a very strong physical and sexual attraction within me for you. This is all very natural and the very first emotion to be created within a man [regardless of how he may try to pretend that it is otherwise; or, someone to wish it was otherwise]. That is why I am being honest with you right from the very beginning.
But more important, that is not the end all and be all here. In fact, it is just the beginning!
Wanting to get to know you as a person and individually is of primary importance - getting to know the real you - the you inside of you - the length, depth, and breadth of you.
I desire to become the best of friends and share with you all that can be shared - physically and mentally. And, that can only be achieved by sharing ideas, concepts, likes, dislikes - everything that there is possible to share with you.
Thus in my mind, a 5 second sound bite just does not do it in the long term. Everything of substance requires involvement. And, that is the very reason why I have approached you the way I have. I desire both involvement and substance with you - this email clearly demonstrates that desire of mine.
I would love to explore with you what might be. If I have touched your heart, mind, and soul - I would love to hear back from you.
If you are kind of in the middle and undecided, I would like to know that too - so that I can keep knocking at the door of your heart - as long as you desire.
But also, if you definitely are not interested, please let me know that also so I do not keeping on trying to get your attention; and therefore, waisting both of our times [I am man enough to know that everyone has their individual likes and dislikes. I respect that in you and will honor your desires also].
So do not be lax nor afraid - let me know whatever your decision is.
