I really love this message, I say something similar all the time. Be grateful God gave you a miracle because some people never get the chance. What always bothers me is that people who don't want kids or don't want to care for them can have all the kids they want, but the people who would love them unconditionally and do anything in the world to make sure they were taken care of...can't. But I know God has a plan and all, it just is thought provoking to why and it's a personal issue for me, as well.

Good write.