Life

Why life hasn't turned out to be the way we want it to be?
Haven't we often told our selves, life doesn't always turn out to be the way we want it to be. That disappointments come in regular dosages, that fate always has its own way of winning. But have we really considered taking some time out just to look at life s journey and understand why life hasn't turned out to the be the way we want it to be?
Life is nothing but a game that we play, where we are the players as well as the referee. And the way we proceed with the game is completely in our hands. Disappointments, hurt, sadness, loss are the hurdles we will face. Just like how we don't lose and blame the game to be bad, just like how we lose and take responsibility for the loss, just like how we lose a game and practice harder to rise, We must play life in a similar way. When we lose something in life we can't blame life to be bad. Our life is nothing but the reflection of choices that we make. So when life turns out to be the way it does, it is and solely is because of the way we want it to be. Do we try to lose someone and let it go, do we not often give up when we face disappointments, do we not blame the banana when we slip and fall? Isn't it our fault that we don't bother to watch where we go? And finally Has life really turned out to be the way we don't want it to be?