Man loves woman and woman man, would that not be the original or natural way of things? Also I'm not too fond of the PREDESTINATION idea and don't think it's true. I think God stuck us here that we may choose for ourselves what we want to be and do and who we want to serve. If it was true what would be the point of us choosing good if our futures are already decided and made for us? And how could we really improve if we were made to be what we are? People aren't born to be anything they grow up, learn from there elders whether good or bad, and ultimately decide for themselves.