a most insightful write. It is true there are no rules in love - mores the pity! If there were I would have bought the book years ago. The question is this: If such a book is out there, I mean one that works! Would we still make the same mistakes? I believe we would. Why you may ask? Well, the trouble be life lessons, especially lessons of the heart, they need to be learnt the hard way. Even then, there is no guarantee that love will be a success. The falling in love is the easy part, the tough bit is making it work, finding love with another before time runs out. Tick tock.