We fall in and out of love and it takes a lot to get to that point. Once those feelings are gone it can make someone look pale. They in shock. That is my understanding of this write. Take care

You definitely hit on the process of letting go, it's hard to deal with loving someone who has other agendas. But in the end for your own sanity you do and then you look at that person with a "how the heck did I ever love you" look.