Breaking bonds of a daughter and a mom

by Tammy Radi   Jun 18, 2016


You were my Tar bear,
My care bear,My sunshine bear,My snuggle bear,
My funny bear,My little boo bear,My best friend bear,
Most of all you were my biggest loved bear.
I gave you that nickname Tar bear because
Of your dad. When he was little he thought his name
Was Teddy Bear, so when he told me that I decided
To call you bear that and because of the care bears.
Now to me that would make you my everything bear.
But when you turned 16 something changes. You didn't need me anymore. You had a boyfriend and your thoughts begin to change. I was no longer needed so you threw me to the curb. It's easier to get thing your way at dads house. So no matter how much I broke apart or tried to love you. You had to push me away. You left with no real warnings just me wondering where my bear had gone.Tara you can block me from all the social media you want, you can ignore my text,my calls, my love, you can hurt me destroy me, make lies about me, but the one thing you can never do is take my love for you away from me. So go ahead be strong! Be brave, be whatever you want to be but to me, you will always be My Tar Bear, never forget me bear, my all grown up bear, my never talk to me bear, my beautiful bear, I will never stop loving you bear, because you are my one and only Bear!

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  • 8 years ago

    by Em

    A great, personal write that obviously means a lot to you. All I can say is I hope this write helped somewhat and that things get better if they haven't already.

    Em

  • 8 years ago

    by Brenda

    This write really resonated with me. My own daughter turned her back on me for close to 3 years. We used to finish each others sentences and then it went to where I was nothing. Thankfully-we now have a relationship, it's different but the same, if that makes sense. Of all the awful crap her father did when we were divorcing was nothing to her turning her back on me-that brought me to my knees. Give her time, she'll come around. I actually had to let her go to get her back. I know right now my words probably sound hollow but they aren't. Stay strong and take care-Brenda

    • 8 years ago

      by Tammy Radi

      Thanks Brenda for the words of encouragement. Everyone keeps telling me that she'll come back but I'm so broken and devastated. We were like two peas in a pod. We would finish each other sentences and laugh and cuddle...she was my best friend but I would always tell her I'm your mother not your friend. But the truth be told she really was my best friend. I missing out on everything thats going on in her life. But she won't even talk to me. I miss her so much. But I know you must know how it feels.

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