I would make sure my daughter and son know to love� themselves before loving anyone else, that's the most important part of falling in love. I would make sure God's in their life some way to never lose faith. To never give up on their dreams no matter how long it took them to achieve. To always respect yourself to walk away from anything that no longer serves them growth and happiness. Never worry about what others have to say because this is their life as long as your happy. I would say to them make sure you have yourself together to stay in school to take on a career their in love with. Always make time for themselves to take risk as long as it doesn't hurt them or anyone else. Go on random adventures to take road trips with their family and friends even with themselves. I would always remind them that their father and I love them dearly that we will always be there for them no matter the situation. My son would know how to respect and love a women most of all to never abused a women in no type of way. My daughter would know to never lay down with man until their honeymoon. I would tell her to open herself up but don't give anyone the power to control her emotions. I would tell them it's okay to feel heart ache you'll learn most of all you'll grow from it. I know the pain hurts now like it would never go away it will things just take time. You'll have friends that will cross or even use you just be careful with whom you trust, you can't trust everyone always rrememberthat. You'll make friends in middle and high school that you'll never talk to again it's just that some people go their own ways, there just trying to found themselves. I'll tell them you'll fall in love with a lot of things but you'll never fall in love the same way every time.
