I just to say the same thing that I was tired of pretty much everything until I was told that only I could make a change. People talk people judge people call you names and don't like you because they don't know you. I understand how you feel. Be yourself and all the best to you

Dagmar is right, you have to be yourself. Be true to you and not worry about how others think you "should be". They don't walk in your shoes so they have no room to judge anything you do.