And you should stay the way you are, Dagmar.

A very happy Christmas to you,

Ben

Dagmar, you are a wonderfully wise, kind strong lady who are who you are today because of the life you have lived. You are much loved by more peoole than you can count exactly the way you are. Dont ever change. Sending you the biggest hug i can muster and much love. Milly x

Age makes us wiser, but sometimes there’s a feeling of...who wants to be wise? The reflection at the end of a year can be somewhat damaging. This poem is really poignant and I hope you have peace and happiness next year.