Brenda this is sad and you have so openly expressed yourself. You have come a long way and I am happy that you had the courage to stand up for yourself. I can relate well and so many others unfortunately don't find the strength to escape such control. You have found happiness. Thank you for sharing and added to my favorite. All the very best and warm hugs to you |
by Brenda
Dagmar, thank you so much. I'm definitely in a better place now, it takes that time away from a toxic relationship to really see the damage and your own part in it. Hugs my friend- |
by Mark
Beautifully written! Very relatable Brenda for one whose been in a self destructive relationship. Hugs |
by Brenda
Thank you so much Mark! Hugs you! |
by Blank
So powerful. So strong whilst so sad. Your write is an inspiration for as all. I could feel the message being told here and it was truly beautiful. |
by Brenda
Thank you so much. If it helps just one I will be so happy. There is light at the end of that tunnel. |
by Ben Pickard
Strong write, Brenda. Great to see a new post from you. |
by Cantchangeme
This is great. The strength to leave those places behind. To have the power to realise that the clawing, digging and scratching doesn’t always help and can just serve to keep us in those holes. To take back control. Very inspirational. |
by Brenda
Thank you so much! Taking back my control was the best thing I could have done. Finally achieved the peace I was seeking. |
A brave and inspirational piece that will touch anyone who has either been through or is going through a toxic relationship. It's a measure of your strength that you broke free and found happiness again. A really well deserved nomination. Hugs Milly x |
by Brenda
Thank you so much Milly! I feel very grateful and blessed that I no longer am with this person. Its wonderful to be in an actual relationship that we treat each other with love and respect. Hugs you- |
by Maple Tree
To have met you in person, and to see the beautiful sparkle of your eyes, how can anyone make you feel this way... it just guts me... This poem is a tear jerker... hugs you |
by Brenda
Awww, thank you my friend- I truly appreciate you. Meeting you in person was one of those life highlights, and as you know after meeting my husband why I'm at peace again. Hugs- |
by Michael
Just beautiful Miss Brenda, and great to see a new poem from you. Much love M :)x |
by Brenda
Thank you so much Michael, feels good to be writing. |
by C Cattaway
I love this. You could have written it for me. To be able to walk free, taking in the air, not the mud. I appreciate how reading this made me feel. Great write. Thank you. |
by Brenda
Catherine I am so happy this made you feel that way. It truly was a freeing moment when I walked away from this. I really started living again. |
by Angie
This tugs at the heart... So glad you were able to climb out of that hole... hugs you |
by Brenda
Thank you so much! It was the best thing I ever did for myself. Hugs you- |
by Star
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