The Love/Relationship Rules

The Love/Relationship Rules:

1) Love & Value Yourself First and Remember that You’re Worthy of Love, Respect, Caring, and Adoration, and deserve to be Adored, Revered, and Cherished.

2) Never be afraid to open yourself to love. Go into it Wide Eyed, but with those Wide Eyes see all, not only the fancifully good things, but the negatives and issues telling you something is not right. Ignore no sign good or bad.

3) Lead with your heart, but remember to use your head, also. (Love fervently and unabashed - without abandon or inhibition - unbridled and with an open heart, but with open eyes, as well, so that, when things just aren't right, you may be able to see that, walk away!!!)

4) The sooner you find, that someone isn't right for you, worthy of you, or simply, just doesn't love you, the better, because then, you can move on to something, someone better.

5) Loosing dead weight (someone who doesn't truly love, value, and care about you) is not really loosing.

6) In time, good relationships prosper and bad one falter, so, if the relationship didn't work, it’s probably because it wasn't right, meant to be.

7) A Breakup is not a Bad thing. (The end of a relationship isn't necessarily bad.) {You can grow and learn from the experience - finding out about yourself and what works and doesn't work for you - as it concerns a relationship and a partner, as well as finding out what your needs are in a committed union, what you want and need in a partner, and what you're willing and not willing to put up with, and learn how you can be a better partner - by figuring out what were your shortcomings in the relationship and as a mate/lover.}

8) There are two ways to see a Breakup as Heartbreak or as an Opportunity. You can choose to see it as an opportunity to find a relationship more worthwhile and someone better for you, or you can choose to be heartbroken and sulk and let that bad relationship take away from your chances to find happiness in a good one. (Refer back to rules 4, 5, 6, & 7)

9) As far as a relationship, a partner or ex-partner can only destroy you (break you into a billion little pieces) if you let them -- So, remember your value as a person and partner, and never let the light in your soul be dimmed nor the life of your spirit be killed off by others negative behavior or energy.

10) The best way to find happiness within a relationship is by finding it within you, first. (Loving yourself first is the sure way to having someone love you.)

These are some basic rules (guidelines) to relationships – to help us find happiness within them. They are meant to help make clear the mess that is often time romantic involvements/relationships.