Rules Of Attraction/Compatibility (Expanded)

Rules of Attraction/Compatibility!!!

(These are some basic guidelines to finding a workable relationship and having a happy, harmonious union. They are guidelines to finding a wonderfully stimulating, well-balanced, give and take relationship. It is meant to help you in finding a worthwhile relationship (connection) and to help you examine present connections (relationships) to see your overall compatibility. Here's to finding the best possible mate, match, and partner and having worthwhile relationships!!! Good luck to all and God Bless...)

Rules of Attraction/Compatibility!!!

1) A Good Rapport: Having a harmonious relationship -with give and take-wherein communication flows freely and the parties involved have a mutual understanding of one another and relate well.

2) Mental Chemistry: it is important to a relationship and its survival to have mutual mental stimulation, to be mentally stimulated by your partner, that the parties involved are mentally compatible and able to communicate on a mental level. When the passion dies down and animalistic desires stop being the driving force of your relationship, that relationship has to be sustained in other ways, communication being one of them, and if you’re bored by your partners mental aptitude, their ability to effectively carry on a conversation, you’re soon to be bored, by them, thusly, you must have some sort of mental rapport, chemistry, to carry your relationship, when the intoxicating highs of love wane, die down!!!

3) Physical Attraction/Chemistry: that the person you’re involved with be someone that you find physically attractive and by whom you are physically aroused, stirred, that this person be someone you have a physical affiniy to and for and find physically stimulating, exciting, alluring.

4) A Mutual Affinity for one another: that you both have a mutual shared interest in one another, and an attraction to & liking of one another, and a feeling of kinship - wherein a similarity of nature exists between you two.

5) A Mutual Adoration, Admiration, Inclination and Affection For and Towards Each Other: that you have reverence, respect, and appreciation for one another with a high fondness and fancy, wherein you just like one another and enjoy one another's company.

6) An Emotional Connection: that you have strong feelings of love, caring, devotion, and kinship, towards each other, sharing empathy for one another's feelings.

7) Amorous feelings of Attraction/Affinity towards one another: that you’re strongly attracted to one another, with feelings of sexual love, desire, and affection, that you’re enamored of each other.

8) Sexual Compatibility: that you and your partner be on a similar sexual level, that your affinity of the sexual be in and of the same range, and your sex drives be in close proximity of one another’s.

9) A Soul Kinship: that you share a likeness of soul, spirit, being, that your essential essence be similar, and you possess a spiritual connection, a compatibility of souls, with similar character, Ideals, and values.

10) A Likeness Of Essence, Energy, & Outlook: that your essential base nature be similar. Say, if you are an optimist with positive energy you want to find someone that relates to your energy and has similar energy. Yes, positive and negative energies, together, can balance themselves out, and an optimist can be a positive influence on a pessimist and can have a positive impact on their lives, but a pessimist negative energy can also bring an optimist positive energy down, draining them, and impacting their happy, optimistic, positive mood. Usually these two essences, energies, outlooks, just clash, and are a source of tension, causing disputes and strife in your relationship. Two clashing energies does not a cohesive, compatible, and happy relationship make, so, for a more harmonious union, your essence, energies, outlooks, must be similar, to better your chances in the long term.

11) A Mutual Enjoyment And Appreciation Of One Another: that you mutually and genuinely enjoy one another's company and have an appreciation of one another wherein you make each other laugh and smile, you find the others company pleasant, and have a good time around one another and feel they genuinely enrich your life and your life is better for they're in it.

12) Mutual Caring, Respect, Reverence, and Admiration/Adoration For One Another: that you value one another and have mutual esteem for each other, that you like one another and look at each other with favor, that you have a mutual devotion to one another and are dedicated to the other's happiness, prosperity, and well-being and show concern for that and work towards them having those things, and that you mutually feel each other is of high importance in the others life, and delight in one another, with fondness and appreciation.

Important Definitions;

Character: ones main or essential nature; the inherent compound and composition of attributes that determine a person's moral and ethical principles, values, actions and reactions

Ideals: the philosophy that governs someone's basic beliefs, values, and ethics and therefore, their behavior and actions

Values: a person's principles or standards of behavior that helps determine what is important in life (the belief system governing them)

If you found these guidelines to be sound, helpful, and to ring of truth, I'm glad to have provided you with some insightful and common sense relationship wisdom. If you agree, disagree, or feel some rules (guidelines) are missing, were left out, feel free to comment and let your voice be heard. Feel free to add some additional or comment on the existing...