Thats it

Which in this case , went along with yours. (humor)

You are closer to comprehend the paradoxical "Dualism”. The two sids there, are rivals but not antagonistic. ( one must kill the other) Instead they can not live with or without each other.
For example like genders, life and death, dark and light, black and white...,
Though some of them like life and death which seem antagonistic, they are not. They are "contrast "twins."

By comparing the contrast to date, (man and woman) and yet their disability to arrive at one another, you’ve figured one of the most important aspect of "Pair contrasts" and that is "Cycle." You did it (in the process of doing) by yourself. And in all this site and 100% minus a few, of the world, nobody can notice that in your simple writings. So this makes me a little proud of myself. It is like you see an unknown flower, very tiny, lost somewhere behind a bolder, that is so prime and the beauty is so magnificent but because the lack of attention for the real beauty, (regardless of clichés, fames, sizes, portions and….) it unfortunately is exclusively to entertain only your aesthetic sensibility.

We see things sometimes which can not be shared with anyone else. That is exiting and sad in the same time.

Edited

Come on they dated for a while in twilight.