omg...what happened when you told? did the social worker take you away from him? i am so sorry that he hurt you! you shouldnt have gone through that. i know my dad is abusive towards me...gosh that sounds weird. i never call him that. my dad. wow...i cant call him that. the only thing i refer to him as is him or he. i dont have a name for him because well he isnt my dad. because dad's are always there for you and are nice and loving. mine isnt so therefore he isnt considered my dad.