like wat i sed b4, try!!!! they luv u, jus put urself in their position, would u want them 2 b lying 2 u? i no it dsunt seem that its the best thing 4 them but they would prefer te truth, most oftenly they find out u been lying and that will hurt even more 2 them...and u

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