Love or Lust?

How do you tell the difference between love and lust, people fall too easily for one another

You meet a guy and he's absolutely gorgeous, sweet, giving, caring and you think you met the love of your life

Then you meet a guy who is a little rough around the edges, but is also giving and caring and you love him too.

How can we tell if we just want to spend intimate time with them and not actually want a relationship with them?

Is it love, true love or just lust?

Maybe everything is all lust and there really is no such thing as true love.

I am just very confused because I don't know what I feel