Comments : Forever Changed

  • 19 years ago

    by CynicxSincexBirth

    this world had turned into a real shit fest, wouldn't you say? everyone i know, people i meet places at times. this happens to them. well, in their own story. ur poem is really sad, and if someone reads this that doesn't know the horrid world. i hope this is a good wake up call.

  • 19 years ago

    by Shawnda

    OMG I can stand people like ur Uncle. It makes me sick. They don't realize that even though were 14,15,or,16 we are still little girls. i feel so sorry for you. Keep up your head & faith!

    LOTS OF LUV
    ~SHAWNDA~

  • 19 years ago

    by Andrea

    wow! i'm speechless...this poem is amazing and it must've been hard to write about it, i know writing my story about my rape was very hard. im so sorry that happened to you!! i am so glad he never touched you again. *hugs*

  • 19 years ago

    by Tammy

    Thank you everyone for the comments. I wanted to let everyone know that I did eventually forgive my uncle. I realized he was a VERY sick man & in need of some major help. I am not saying I was ever friends with him or spent any time with him after what he did, but I did forgive him in my heart. He passed away a couple of years ago. I can rest now knowing he can no longer hurt anyone. Writing this poem helped me deal with the pain. I didn't write it for sympathy or anything like that... it's just part of the healing process. This happened 25 years ago and to be honest, I am glad I can't remember the last time, because I think it was really bad. Thanks again for the comments. And to all of the young girls who may read this and are going through a similar situation... Please don't let it ruin your life. Always remember there is a better life waiting for you!! If you try to kill yourself or let it ruin your life then HE WON!!! Don't ever let him win!! He has taken enough from you. Be strong... keep your head up & keep your faith up.
    When you feel like you have no where else to turn... You always have Jesus.. He loves you no matter what!! Trust Him to help you through it. He is always faithful!! God bless you all!!

  • 19 years ago

    by Kalika

    Hello,
    That was a very impressive poem, it touched me....I completely relate to how you felt, as you understand from reading my poem.....Thank you so much for commenting on my poem, it means the world to me, and thank you for recomending this poem for me to read.....It's good to know that I may in fact get over what has happened to me, and learn to forgive and forget.....Thank you for that.....

    Kalika

  • 19 years ago

    by Dominique

    thats was really amazing, and im glad that he doesn't do that to you anymore, what a jerk, but i'll take you up on your advice, and if it helps i did tell a trusted family memeber, and they promised to keep an eye out for me, but i wanted to let you know that your advice won't go unapperciated, and thank you for your help
    :)

  • 19 years ago

    by wdnest

    I think this is an excellent poem Tammy.

    I am glad you wrote it and hope that it gave you great relief in telling your story.

    wdnest

  • 18 years ago

    by *~Emma~*

    Wow, that poem was very touching, i'm so sorry that happened! even now it's probably hard to believe it ever did. It's amazing how well you write! thanks for recommending a read this poem.
    luv em