Well, I'll be the first! :) Every friendship faces such an event and if it is true friendship it can withstand it. I've gone through this very thing with my best friend many times and we are just as close as ever. This is the type of thing that makes your bond stronger. Push her to talk to you, make it clear to her how you feel!! Don't just let her stop being your friend. I lost a friend in high school because I was too scared to say something to her and I still think of her every day. Don't let that happen....Good luck with everything!