Actually... i believe it is a choice to be miserable. They can hurt us with all the stones they throw, but its our choice if we want to recover. The most important thing is to never let people get to us, because then we destroy ourselves slowly. Besides, somewhere in the world someone always has it way worse so in my opinion it is useless to worry about the things we havent done, or what we arent... because that will only make us insane. We must appreciate and learn to love ourselves for our individuality... then and only then, will we be complete:)

Ana*