I am in the same exact position as you...i'v been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs and lately i'v had this crush on some 1 i work with...well now that someone keeps flirting with me and we had a kiss... now im so confused on what to do. especially since i work with him so i see him everyday.And my boyfriend treats me like shit most of the time so if you figure out what to do let me know. 5/5