Its really not that easy to stop, cutting was like an addiction for me, I was obsessed. Kind words can help the healing process, but until a cutter is truely ready to stop, nothing can just wish it away. Many people who don't understand it say it is stupid; but it helps to cope, and it is a means of staying alive, when the person really can't find any other way to effectively cope. Pain to a numbed heart can make a person feel alive again. I'm not encouraging it, I'm proud of those who have cut in the past, and who have been able to move on. As for those who havent, there will always be hope.

Err.. not proud of them for cutting of course, proud they were able to fix their lives.

Yea dats how it was for me but i stoped it and cutting really did help till i was over it