by Misty Julian Sep 27, 2005
category :
Sadness, depression /
lost relationships
Now we all know what it's like to lose a loved one. I know that losing a loved one is definitely not fun or cool but it's something that practically happens everyday when we least expect it. It's just something that we have no control over. Well we never know what's going to happen the next day. I know that losing a loved one can be really hard but it's just one of those things that we all experience through out our lives here on earth. We all have to deal with losing loved ones but that doesn't mean that we have to live with it. Things happen for a reason and that is just one of those things that happens for a reason. When you lose a loved one it can be really hard and it can also make you stop and think of all the good times and sometimes it can also make you think about the bad times too. Believe you me I know what you people are going through whenever one of you lose one of your loved ones. It's harder then some people think. I mean of course losing a loved one isn't fun but it pretty much happens on daily bases. It happens when you least expect it to happen. I mean I'm not saying that your expecting it to happen I'm just saying that it happens when you least expect it. Losing a loved one is the hardest things to have to go through. Of course none of us like losing loved ones but we just have to be willing to except the changes that come along with it. We all experience different things that happen in our lives. We may not always understand why these kinds of things happen but that's just the way it goes. None of us knows the answer to the questions that we have except for one which is god. God is the one who can help us through the good times and the bad. God is always on our side. Well what can I say we all have to cope with the changes. I can tell you one thing though that once that loved one is gone it's just not the same when that loved one is gone. Losing a loved one can be very difficult. A friend of mine has lost lots of loved ones in his life time too. Even my mom has lost a few loved ones that were dearly loved. My mom loved them so much and she still till this day she still does. I remember the loved ones and always will remember them. I often hope that their happy where they are now because I know that is their new home now and will always be their home for now and forever. I love them all so much that it's really hard to be here on earth while there in a far way land or as some people would say their in heaven. Heaven is their new home and now they actually get the chance to see what it's like to actually get to be able to see and meet the lord and his son Jesus our savor. Don't worry we'll get through all this depression and anger and hate and sadness and whatever else we feel during these times. May god god bless you all and may god be with you all. My god stand by your side through the good times and the bad times. May god help guide you all on the right path and may god walk with you through the darkness. May god be with you at all times. May god always be when you need him the most. Is all you have to do is reach out to him and ask him forgiveness for all your sins and ask him to be your teacher and leader and guider. He is always there to comfort you when you are in need of a friendly hug or just need someone to be there and need someone to care. God is a very loving and caring person who loves us all even those of us who have sinned and those of us who have done bad things. It doesn't matter who we are. We're his children and that's all that matters. He loves us all. He'll always love us all no matter what happens. Even when we're gone he'll still love us. God bless all of you and may you all walk in the path of god. May you all find the strength in your hearts to reach out to him and ask him forgiveness. |