Ah, I saw the title and though I must read it. After reading the first three lines I though "i hate her" but then you wrote, what I wanted to tell you. Believe me, my dad has cancer and will, might,could, would, should (oh god, if I knew) die, so don't say something like that. Get away from it all for a few days, then you know what you miss, that is what you love,
dwight