Wow...i relate. my man loves me an di love him...his past that he told me about makes me wonder if he's that same person today. it scares me to think he lies and cheats because i love him soo much. he talks with girls on the comp too(my space.com) and 1 time i set him up as someone else, now my heart is unsure if he really was going to cheat on me. trust is a big factor, if you can trust him then youll feel beter for yourself because you wont be worring what he is doing and with who and if he is thinking bout you...