Hey darl a t0uching piece. very well written. beautifully w0rded. amazing j0b 0n this.

l0ve always d0ra

To the people who would comment that opposites can attract too and that this list is about two people being almost the same, I’d explain things as such and explain how these rules came into being:

Opposites attract, but you can be too opposite, and the particular key in these rules is compatibility. It speaks of attraction, for attraction is important, but there have been plenty of people that I have been attracted to, but we just didn't vibe. Now, true, you can be too alike, and you do need to have some differences, to offset one another, when involved in a relationship, but too many, and it causes major areas of friction, which is not a good thing. What this post was basically born of was me taking a look at the people I vibed with and why I vibed with them, while also examining, the innate keys to attraction. And me personally, I want some one who can understand me at my basic core, and it's much easier when their core is basically the same as mine. I'm easygoing and free-spirited, and couldn't make it well with someone anal and over-stiff, or someone over domineering, physco, and on the jealous/possessive side. We just wouldn't mesh well. The anal, stuffy, stiff, person wouldn't allow for free-spirited fun, and I might soon get bored. With the over domineering, jealous, possessive type personality, I might have fiery passion, but that fire, I know, would burn, consume me eventually, for I just can't deal with all that stress, so for me, I would need someone who understands who I am and how I see things. They wouldn't have to agree with me, totally, but they would have to be able to deal, with what and who, I was, am. If your natures are just too different, can there be any bases of/for compatibility!!!