The term "falling in love" really is true....
when a person is in love they're only falling in a hole...
with some people you hit the ground fast and it hurts...
with other people, the hole you're falling down is narrow and bumpy and can hurt more than anything when you've hit the bottom...
even when you love someone your entire life, its easy to forget your falling, but you finally hit the ground at death.
There's no way to keep a person from falling in love...