Portrait of a Friend

I cant give solutions to all of lifes problems, doubts,
or fears. But I can listen to you, and together we will
search for answers.

I cant change your past with all its heartache and pain,
nor the future with its untold stories.
But I can be there now when you need me to care.

I cant keep your feet from stumbling.
I can only offer my hand that you may grasp it and not fall.

Your joys, triumphs, successes, and happiness are not mine;
Yet I can share in your laughter.

Your decisions in life are not mine to make, nor to judge;
I can only support you, encourage you,and help you when you ask.

I cant prevent you from falling away from friendship,
from your values, from me.
I can only pray for you, talk to you and wait for you.

I cant give you boundaries which I have determined for you,
But I can give you the room to change, room to grow,
room to be yourself.

I cant keep your heart from breaking and hurting,
But I can cry with you and help you pick up the pieces
and put them back in place.

I cant tell you who you are.
I can only love you and be your friend.
--Kelly