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by Amber Song Jun 12, 2006 category : Sadness, depression / grieving, loss
~A Widow's Poem Of Grief~Whispering stars of yesteryear Come sighing to my memory, Flighted fantasies....... Dreams on my wings.Dreams, too many, come jolting into my presence... insisting...insisting... that they be there, invading my privacy, lurking in shadows. Unwanted memories. Searching for more ...looking for people... not there. Sad songs water my mind & leave it murky. Embracing sorrow is not my desire.Oh dreams, oh fun of yesteryear... where are you? Why did you have to leave? Why do I sit here... voiceless... isolated... maybe even forgotten.Where are the good times? Where is the noise... the activity... that was so frequent here? Why does "silence" now pretend to be "my best friend"? Where is "the face"... & the smiles that came so frequently from "that face"? How many does he light up now... with his love, his embrace, & his cheer? Heaven overflows with the joy he brings! While my life drifts quietly by... in silence. Should I seek to join him in Heaven's Grace? Or do I sit in this silence... alone... & "embrace" that aloneness? I have my thoughts. I have my skills. I can use them for my Lord. But how sad. how sad, to put them to use, with no one... with whom to share them. The joys, sorrows, frustrations, once shared by two, Now are shared by one, alone.Where are the people who sought him out? Why is my phone so silent? Why is my mailbox so empty, (except for bills, of course)? Where is everyone?Is it true, what one person said, that many were friends with my husband, but not necessarily with me? I suppose I shall have to make new friends, and get out of the house. But that will be very difficult, with no car, & being handicapped, "to boot". Yet I frequently said to my husband... "With God, ALL THINGS are possible".Jesus Christ is my "only" Husband right now. And somehow, He will take care of EVERYTHING... Including sorely & deeply needed COMPANY!!!It is not good for man or woman to be alone. And no one is an island ...unto themselves...©2006~Poetry by Amber {~Swan Song~}