Why is love so difficult? I mean seriously. If two people love each other then where does the conflict come in?? Well, I have the answer that everyone's been searching for. We all know why relationships fall apart and why hearts get broken we just never want to face up to it. Its because we cheat, lie, sneak around, and worst of all give up. If you love the person you're with then you shouldn't be doing any of the four things I just listed. Lets start with the whole cheating thing. If you are interested in someone else then why the hell are you in a relationship?!? If cheating even crosses your mind then you need to get out of the relationship you're currently in because obviously you're not ready for a commitment. I've been cheated on so many times and still haven't figured out why the guys that say they love me had the urge to hook up with another female. There's just no excuse for it. Lying is a whole other subject. Everyone lies, I don't care who ya are, you lie. Lying will crush a relationship so fast that you wont even realize its in pieces. I've been caught lying in a relationship before over something so stupid that I should've never even lied about. Trust is the only way a relationship will last. Sneaking around is directly connected with lying and cheating. If you're in a relationship with someone and your sneaking around behind their back let me tell you right now. YOURE GONNA GET CAUGHT. Maybe not right away but its only a matter of time. Guys if you're sneaking around behind your girls back then you are NOT a man, and same goes for the girls. But out of the first three none of them are as bad as giving up, quitting, walking out on the person you love the most. Because when you walk out they may lock the door behind you and never let you back in. If you fight with your b/f or g/f or you end up saying hurtful things to them that you never meant to say, don't give up. Try to work it out because you'll realize that if you really love that person both of you will be able to work it out. Not everyone gets a second chance after a break-up, but if you do get a second chance, then make it work.
