One or the Other

Who am I supposed to be with
The one questin I just can't seem to get
Do I choice the one that loves me everyday
Or the one who's love always seems to fade away
So many years with one
A load of arguments and not a lot of fun
Only one year with the other
But through all the beatings of how I did suffer
Please help me choice the one who loves me the most
The one guy who won't treat me as if I was a ghost