Well...for this it is true, there is really no one who can tell you who you are or who you should be, its somthing (for one reason or another) we must find ourselves, and yes i know how chezzy that sounds but ironicly its true, it may take a really long time, but if you really want it, i deeply belive you will find it. i have to believe, eles what eles is there to do, huh?