The two sides of you

I fell in love with you,
If only i knew.

you had two sides,
One id love,
one id despise.

one id charish,
one id ignore.
one id hate,
one id adore.

which side are you going to show me?
which side do YOU think makes me happy?
I have an idea,
a little clue.
I fell in love with,
the side that showed you!