I know what your saying but for the other side, my ex always talked about me to his new girlfriends(mind you i moved on and we have been apart to years)but they didnt think he was over me when realy he was just confussed on how ealse to fell about me. we were together a long time and we didnt know who we were with out each other. i know that sounds lame but we were in love and we didnt want to forget all we had been threw so we just never stoped being friend and his girlfriend now understood it and moved on.
i dont know what man in his right mind tho that would tell his girlfriend that a nother girl was hot, some things are best kept to your self. any way sorry this is long but i thought i would put in my to cents. Well i like your writing style and think you have tons of heart!
good luck with your man and keep trying. 5/5
fondly
alexie