Questions in love

If I shut you out
Will you come knock on my door?
If I take myself away
Will you want me all the more?
Will you swim harder for the poolside
Or for the distant shore?
I cant be the perfect girl
But I can help us both see
Just how much you would give to get me
If you don't
Then whats this all for?

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