Life is hard. There is NO doubt that. Everyone has their own ways of changing things, themselves, and getting over their problems. All kinds on things go on in everybody lives. Boys, family problems, dealing with who you are. Boys? I say forget about them. If he is breaking your heart over and over again. Don't let him do it. It might be hard, REALLY hard. But why would you want to spend every night crying over a stupid human being that obviously has no feelings whatsoever. Get away from him, move on, and you'll be tons happier. Most guys don't deserve the girls they go after. Most girls deserve a whole lot better. So why do you settle for less? Lots think that "this is the one." No one actually know who "the one" is. Only God knows. Somewhere out there he made someone just for you. And maybe not soon, but one day God will bring you two together. So just wait, live your life, until he brings you that person. If you're questioning, is this him? Is he who I'm meant to be with? Let go. And if he comes back, then he is. Not meaning break up for a week, and get back together because you still like him. Meaning LET GO. Find some other people see if it works out, if they don't and you're meant to be with that guy, God will set ya'll on the same path. Just wait for it. Things take time. Lots of things no one else knows about, because we don't want to tell anyone. Maybe we're too embarrassed, too shy to speak up, or mabe it's too personal. We're scared to tell someone. But why? Keeping all of your problems locked up inside of you isn't going to help or solve anything. Not saying that you should go around telling everyone. But every single person in this whole entire world has someone they can go to. Someone they can trust. Maybe it's a mom, dad, grandpa, grandma, best friend, boyfriend/girlfriend. It could even be your diary. Just somewhere or someone to tell your feelings to, the things that are going on in your life to. Just let everything that is wrong out. You'll feel so much more refreshed and clean. But maybe you really can't tell anyone or you just really can't get yourself to tell someone. The absolute best thing to do is get down on both of your knees, bow your head, put you hands together, and PRAY. God listens. He always has and always will. HE can help you with anything. He can pick you up if you've fallen down, and set you back on the right track. If you're headed down the wrong road, he'll lead you to the right one. God works in mysterious ways. Even when we don't realize it, he is always doing something for us and always helping us. God gave everyone of us a life to live. He has saved many as well. There is a reason for that. He has something in store for us. ALL OF US. Something great, something wonderful. So live your life the best you can. That is why were here. Stop making choices that you know aren't right. Doing drugs,getting wasted everyday, hurting people and yourself. Nothing to be proud of. And if you are that's a shame. You should thank God for everything he has ever given or done for you. The life He has blessed you with. Whether you believe in Him or not, he is still there for you. Think about him everyday because he is the reason you're here.