I learned from life that things are not a fairy tale. That the world is not all bright, but darkness. The world is hard and cruel. It also the most interesting thing that could happen to anyone.

The lost of a loved one is the hardest thing. Just thinking of all what has happened. It seems like all you can think of is all your bad moments with your loved one. Stop. Think of all the good times you had. It will make the grieving lessen.

Forgive those who have harmed you in the past. Forgetting is the hardest to do. Those painful memories keep popping up. Life is to short to be holding grudges. Live and forgive. Don't forget. Learn from those painfull memories.