Cry as I may these tears won't wash you away.

I believe that God above created you for me to love,
He picked you out from all the rest cause he knew I'd love you the best.

Fifty years from now, when you're looking back at your life, don't you want to be able to say you had the guts to get in the car?
-Transformers (2007)

The thing about finding your way is you have to get lost looking sometimes and discovering what works involves finding what doesn't.