My best friend...

I need help...i'll give you some background info before i continue:

me and my best friend met about a year ago because we were both in choir. in april we became best friends when we went to chicago with the choir. from then until recently we hung out all the time. we even went out for a while (we're both bi). and after that we were still best friends so it was great! then one day she was commenting my myspace when she read another of my bi friend's comment about how she was being picked on for being bi. so then my best friend (jassy) and her (sam) started talking.

since then they have become best friends and lovers. and now jassy wont even talk to me. the other day i put a bulliten on myspace saying that i missed her and stuff, and then she got really mad at me and idk why =[

so the past like 5 days i seem to be getting more and more and more sad...=[ and i dunno what to do.

how can i win my best friend back? what should i say? im so lost and hurt and i really need any help that i can get. any advice, no matter what it is, would be appreciated...

thanks...

Hey. Maybe she just needs space, it seems like you two were very close. If i were you, i would do one of two things: 1. talk to her in person, ask her whats up, etc etc.

2. Give her some space, tell her that you still think of her as your best friend and you sort of feel left out, and then leave it at that.

I know i sometimes push my friends away because i feel like i need to be in other people's company, but i always go back to my best friends, its just who i am. If i were you, i would choose option two, as she seems to be avoiding you.

Ok...im trying to...it just really sucks. a lot. because shes one of my only friends...

any1 else?

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ok so its later in the day now. its 10:23pm now. and im editing this post from whenever i did this earlier...

im overwhelmed with sadness. i havent eaten in a good 10.5 hours. and i feel no hunger. all i feel is the need tocry. i read 2 books today...and as soon as id put them down id think about this.

so another question on top of my earlier one...how can i make myself less sad and stop thinking about this....

I think you do need to eat something. Maybe an apple or something. When you start counting the hours since you last ate, you're subconsciously starving. (Well, thats my theory).

Do something you really enjoy doing. Like, waste some time on YouTube, cook something to eat (and then eat), watch a couple of chick flicks, listen to music, anything that relaxes you.

I hope it works out for you.

Tiff

That'd be all fine and dandy if i HAD things i like to do alone..if i HAD movies to watch..if i could cook
=p

but i'll try my best
before i lose my mind
and im not gonna eat now
its time for me to go to bed
and its bad to eat before bed

tomorrow i go to work
hopefully i'll be more cheerful by then

im not sure..but i THINK my friend might have written a bulliten about me
i cant be sure tho
since she didnt use my name
-shrugs-
if she did
at least shes acknowlegding me again...
who knows

I dont think of her as an object, nor our friendship as one. i have a heart.

O.O u have 2 different names, yet the same picture...weird...2 account i hope or im going insane..lol.

yeah im a little cherrier (is that a word?) right now. i played a pc game the last 3 hrs. and that brought my mood up some. well, i have to go to school in the AM so im off to bed.

if anyone knows what i should say?
im not good about talking to these kinds of things to the person...
i try to be non-confrontational

please and thank you

and ^ sry if i came off crabby. i just been down all weekend and its sucked and yeah.

itd probably have made me feel better if my mom hadnt ditched me as well....

but thats life

Im cheerful today. my mom had my baby sister sometime today=] it wasnt due until march 10th, but there had to be an emergency c section...wow. im a big sis..again. lol

such an age gap. here i am at 17, my bro at 13, and my sis at 12, and then a few hour old baby?
o.O

4 lbs 13 oz
=]
im excited

no word from my "best friend" still.
meh

and i know she likes someone else....

Why dont you not post a bulliten on myspace or try to call her. you need to meet up with her face to face. adn discuss the situation. i really dont know what advise to give because i have never been in this kind of situation but just try to talk to her about it in person. it is always better that way.

To make yourself less sad is to find your other friends. even if they are not as important as this one girl. hang out with these people and then MAYBE it will get you mind off of things. do something that you dont do normally.