The ex

Ok i was dating a guy who i meet over the summer we were together for about a year 3 months i lost my virginty to him he joined the marines which put some srain on us but we worked it out after he came and left again after basic we lost contact i though you know hes in training maybe he cant use the phone but i then found out that he was home for christmas and didnt come and se me and he only lives 3 minutes away. the next day his little sister told me that hes been dating his cousin. so i went home and got online and he was on so i asked him about it and he said that his sister lied to me but that we were braking up because he didnt want to hurt me. ok i could deal with it even though i knew it was a lie the new years eve his girlfriend/cousin im me and told me that the whole time me and him were together she was with him how messed up is that and know he wont talk to me at all and hes saying that its all a lie
so what can i do to get him to talk to me and be a real man and tell me the truth?

^^Ditto

If he left you for his COUSIN he obviously has his own set of problems, move on.

Of course they all say move on, but will you ever forget something that you held dear? agreed that he has issues if hes seeing his cousin.. im not sure how you talk to someone who wont talk back..but i know that you cant just forget..let me think more..maybe i can think of a way

Does he still talk if you send him an IM? if so then just keep putting a small amount of pressure on him to tell, if he doesnt respond then there really isnt much you can do except cope with it...friends help best with that...supposedly...

No he doesnt answer anything at all ive tryed but his girlfriend has the password and reads them and thats it
ive tryed calling him but he wont answer it if he knows its me so i guess im just shit out of luck because i wont get the answers i want

Well see that ive tryed but honestly how can i do that if i gave him the only thing i had left that was mine

Lok must be

Hearing the truth when you already know it will most likely not make you feel any better anyway.

Cousin?
ok then my advice
MOVE ON
find a guy that loves you not his family (in the cousin sense)
ur worth more
xx