VALENTINE'S DAY DILEMMA

  • Leah1170
    17 years ago

    My school's having a little fund raiser by selling love notes and such. I guess if you buy one but don't wanna have your crush know it was from you, they could send it as a secret admirer letter or something.

    I was just wondering... There's this guy that I'm pretty interested in but I'm not sure how he feels. I think he might like me... I watch him in class and he seems to watch me back and all, but I don't know if it's pity that running through his mind or just curiosity that I'm watching him... but he seems really popular and hangs out with just about any guy or girl. I don't even know if this guy's right for me, as in what I'm looking for in a guy. I'm pretty much the transparent girl that just goes with the flow in school. I usually hate to stand out, unless I have to. I have no idea what to do. Should I give up on him? Should I send a little letter? I don't think I'd be able to just ask him this, since I'm really shy around guys...and apparently a total cluts too. The other day I just about knocked him over by catching my watch on his backpack. omg...

    Pretty much the only time i talk to him is comments in class or on myspace. Even on myspace we don't talk that much, but does that even count if it's not face to face? Hmmmm...

    So, if i'm not a hopeless case I'd really appreciate some advise. It would help a mil.

  • Noir
    17 years ago

    Well I think you need to send the letter, boys, are a little shy when actually confronting girls on their feelings, so I think you need to actually talk to him, see his interests and try to flirt with him.

    Its that simple...

    Pretty much the only time i talk to him is comments in class or on myspace. Even on myspace we don't talk that much, but does that even count if it's not face to face? Hmmmm..."

    Actually in today's world...Myspace counts as social interacts equal to face to face. Which is a good thing in certain respects, because unlike face to face, you can have no fear actually talking to someone you like, and expressing how you feel about them.

    I think you need to ask him questions, see what he likes, dislikes, and actually get to know him. And pretty soon, you both will share the same emotion you are currently feeling right now.