My Unborn Child is Gone

So a few months ago i thought i was pregnant for about a month and a half.i literally had all the signs and everything,but once i found out i wasn't pregnant i felt i lost a child.even tho i never had one...
my boyfriend at the time got really depressed,i was SOO surprise,he actually wanted a kid.he sort of blamed me for not being strong for a baby.like it was all my fault,then later he left me.
we had everything planned out to how we were gonna raise our family,but it jus all fell apart at once.
i have a new boyfriend now,and when i told him bout what happend,he thought i was crazy.is it really crazy to feel like you had a child?i had my hopes up,names picked out,baby clothes starting...
he doesn't understand why i can't get over it and neither do i...i jus wish i could forget it.

Bob,that must be soo hard to lose two 4real.i dont kno how i would handle it...thanks for the advice.
its definitly one of the worst feelings i've ever had.
you must be really strong to go on after a loss like that,n i definitly got respect for you.

bout me being married...where i live lots of teens have babies.so it wouldn't have been like a BIG deal.i woulda jus fit right in with the other pregnant gurls.and i think thats more of a personal choice of if i wanna be married.

but anyways,thanks guys..i jus wish i could stop thinking bout the little baby we could've had.

anyone else wanna say anything?

Yeah... I think I'm pregnant but I'm not so excited. It's with a guy who I don't really like all that much and also has a gf.
I'm stongly against abortion so I would obviously end up having it but... there's this guy that I'm deeply in love with and we were going to go out soon, however I'm pretty sure I'll never hear from him again as soon as he finds out.
I considered sleeping with him and convincing him the kid was his but that would just be evil!

Yea that's sooo sad, it is normal to feel like you lost a kid fur real, cuz you thought you were pregnant... but becareful if you want to have a kid, cuz even if all the teens in yur neighbourhood are pregnant, maybe your mom is goin this is good my kid is the only teen in the nieghbourhood without a kid so you might dissapoint her by getting pregnant plus a kid is a lot of responsibility.

And as for Somewhereamongthepieces tell the guy before he finds out from somewhere else... that is after you are sure you're pregnant

Thanks you guys.
to somewhere among the pieces,i'd definitly tell him before he finds out from someone else.and if his feelings for you are strong and its meant to be hes gonna support you.
oh and um,yeah that is slightly evil to tell him its his...plus you'd have to live with that secret for your whole life.
losing a baby is one of the hardest things,but i did get lucky and had my mom to hold me up.there are to many teens out there having babies,and everyday i see dads back out.leavin moms,and many girls don't support abortion.or don't have money.

if anyone ever feels like they are hopeless and left alone with what you think,or actually have,a baby.your not alone.so i'm here if anyone needs to talk.

anyone else have something to say?

I thought I was pregnant one time & I got really excited too because the doctor's didn't even think I'd be able to have kids.I hadn't had my period in 3 months & I was having morning sickness so I really thought I was...but it turned out that I wasn't.I got really depressed about it...hell I still am depressed about it.

I'm engaged to the love of my life & we've been together for 1 year & 9 months(engaged for 3 months)Anyways,he doesn't want to have a baby just yet...bad thing I don't think he understands the situation.I'm developing cervical cancer & each year it's getting worse & the chance of me having a healthy baby is steadily declining & the only way to get rid of my cervical cancer is to have a hysterectomy or have radiation treatment...I would have radiation treatment but it would totally kill my ovaries...I don't know what to do...

I thought I was pregnant a couple times coz the condom broke a couple of times but I havent been
and I am glad i guess.
I dont really want to be pregnant.
But i might change my mind in the future,
I just dont like how there are so many babies in the world now and i would rather adopt one less fortunate then bring another one in the world.
I would love to see a mini me and my boyf thou.
but yeah
xx