Backstabbing friends

  • Alisha
    16 years ago

    When u tell a friend u like this guy he should be off limits right? well i told my friend i really liked this guy and she happened to ask him to the soccer game with her and he said its a date. i guess everything i told her didnt get thru her head. i was thinking of talking to him on mspace and telling him this "of sours (name) new crush two weeksa ago it was juan last week it was edgar thsi week is u i wonder whos next" would that be wrong for me to do? she knows i like him and now shes going on a date with him! should i even be upset??

  • Alisha
    16 years ago

    Yea but of course im going to tell him anonymously i cant have him know im the one who is telling him and well wat im telling him is the truth and i dont want him thinking its just cuz i dont want them together. well today is the soccer game and me and my sister plan to "show up" and sit with them and im going to sit next to him and my sister next to her and distract her so i can talk to him. genius plan!

  • Beautiful Chaos
    16 years ago

    Why go her sneaky root and become what you loath? Continue on with your plan to get him, if you like him and cut your "friend" loose. If he is into you, you won't have to trash her to get him.

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    Oh just let them be. She made a move, you didn't. next time you like a guy, ask him out.

  • sibyllene
    16 years ago

    Maybe she liked him before you did. You can talk to her about it, but can you really call "dibs" on people? Don't be petty and sneaky, just talk to her about your concerns. And even better, after you do that, talk to HIM (as yourself) and tell him how you feel.

  • Alisha
    16 years ago

    So yea thanks for the advice but i think its better that this just ends as it is. i already talked to her and she doesnt like him but the thing is im still trying to get over my ex. maybe he was just way to nice and showed me that men do have feelings and they dont always have to be mean

  • Alisha
    16 years ago

    But yea i guess well i just needed advice and my cousin told me to come on here and she let me use her profile thingy thats for the advice laterz