Single, Should i love it?

  • Beautiful Chaos
    16 years ago

    What would you like help with? No matter what his reason, false or not, he said he doesn't want to be with you, why waste your time on someone who doesn't want to be with you, better to find out now rather than 5 years from now.

  • Sweet lig
    16 years ago

    Hmmm it hurts....1

    well love is kind,, so dont force ur self w/him.. and let him go..

    coz u know u cant be happy to be w/him if he doesnt love u anymore so move on

    and im sure there is more worth it than him

    believe me everything happens has a reason!
    GOSH! love is normally like that,, yeah its hurt but eventually ur heart heals and start to love again..

    love lots,

    Sweet lig

  • TheReasons
    16 years ago

    Understanding where this guy is coming from i would say that your only making things alot worse. for any other situation i would say dont just let go, but if what he says is true than its probably best to let him figure this out on his own. or you can try to help him, but you cant force him to get over anything or to love you in return

  • Jaime
    16 years ago

    You should love being single. Don't push things with this guy- you can't make somebody want to be with you.

  • The Queen
    16 years ago

    I'd rather be single, hurt them (like dun commit urself to anyone)before they hurt me...=D..

    in luv, its either u will end up gettin hurt or da other way around...so its up2 you..

  • Alisha
    16 years ago

    Well i agree let him figure out what he wants on his own. and pusshing him into likeing u will eventually push him farther and farther away! give it time and u will me ok *ho ho*
    *u know who this is*

  • TwistedAngel xx
    16 years ago

    Let him get with his ex
    obviously it wont work out otherwise they would have been together all this time and not B exs.
    and then wen he comes crying back for you
    tell him your worth more than that
    stay chill
    xx

  • End of Neverland
    16 years ago

    This happened to my friend. I told her to eat some ice cream, hang with girl friends, and forget about him. if it wasn't a serious, long term relationship, you should let it go. just have fun being single until another, BETTER guy comes along. feel better!

  • Noir
    16 years ago

    Feelings for his ex...

    Its such a shame how harsh these boys are... but I think you're actually afraid of being alone...

    The word "single" is synonmous with the word "lonely" and "alone"... which is why many people will accept any offer set to them just so they won't feel and be lonely....

    I think you need to take a few days or weeks to think about what you really want in your life and do you truly deserve to be second fiddle to another woman...

    Just reflect is all I suggest...

  • TwistedAngel xx
    16 years ago

    Yes be happy that ur single.
    then wen u find another man,
    u will be happier.
    dont be sad coz ur single its not a bad thing.
    its a gd time to find out more about urself.

    xx