Hello--help please

  • Niinaa
    16 years ago

    Well this may sound kiddish but please listen.Ok ive ahd a best friend( thats a guy) for 2 years ive known him, and he has told me so many things and secrets then the other day we got into an arguement and now he wont even speak to me i miss him so much , the way i would call him everyday and laugh my head off @ his hilarious jokes, the way he would always listen to my problems and try to help by giving me speeches, the crazy obssession he has with the O.C, the way he shared so much things with me that i wonder how he could still be holding on so strong, he is the sweetest thing in the world and i screwed that all up i jus needed to really let that out and jus help i dunno what to do anymore he was my everything he was l;ike the glue that kept me from falling apart

  • TheReasons
    16 years ago

    I would love to help. but you havent said why you fought or over what..its hard to know what to say you can do if i dont know the issue

  • Sherry Lynn
    16 years ago

    Write him a letter if he refuses to talk to you. Explain how you are feeling and be honest.

    Don't try to point the finger in other directions. Take responsibility for what you have done.

    I hope it all works out

  • Niinaa
    16 years ago

    We fought over his girlfriend yea thats a bit weird.... it was basically because i said his gf changed , he said something, i took it the wrong way, i was accusing him and i was being an idiot and what hurt me the most was that when the conversation was going to end hes like you could of handled this is a better way and our conversation could of ended with the usual bye<3 That hurt me so much i miss him soo much i screwed everything up ... he was so unique and special in everyway he didnt follow what everyone else was wearing he wore waht he truly liked and he was really brave he was the only guy i know in my school that wears eyeliner

  • TheReasons
    16 years ago

    Well..that is unique but im sure that if hes really that unique that he will have the ability to forgive. so try to talk to him and apologize for it. im not sure how you can do that but thats what you should do...

  • kati
    16 years ago

    I would like to talk to you and help you out cause i have been in the same situation...kinda...but what did you two fight about?

  • kati
    16 years ago

    Wow i guess i should read all the post...im sorry but i have been in the exact situation...but mine ended alot differently

  • hadia
    16 years ago

    Aww, saaaad.
    tell him how you feel, hopefully he will undertand.

  • HisBlueEyedAngel
    16 years ago

    Go to his house and tell him how you feel and your sorry...but you didn't tell why you two fought.

  • MartyrAmanda
    16 years ago

    Well you obviosily know that your in the wrong... so tell him.. and if you shared so much with each other then you will soon become freinds again.. things will change i am sure you were a huge part in his life also.. so he cant just forger about you forever.. just talk it out i know it is easier said than done... but try it the worst that could happen is he could say no.. then thats when you know you dont need him anyways ...if he is so great then he will forgive you.. definatly when you know that you are wrong

  • X Kashies Misery X
    16 years ago

    Yeah ths sucks......give it time i guess, let him no u ar sorry....

    and geese, ur lucky, i wish i had someone like that....SPECIALLY a guy ...... -_- cry*